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BEND AND NOT BREAK
“Bamboo is
flexible, bending with the wind but never breaking, capable of adapting to any
circumstance. It suggests
resilience, meaning that we have the ability to bounce back from even the most
difficult times.”
Excerpted from Bend and Not Break: A Life In Two Worlds
Pages 10 – 11.
On December 31, 2012
Portfolio of Penguin Press published Ping Fu’s business memoir Bend and Not Break: A Life In Two Worlds, in which she
tells of her life during Mao Zedong’s Cultural Revolution, which include being
gang raped at the age of 10 as well as years in a dormitory, forced to live
apart from her family. She also
writes of her rise to become co-founder (with Herbert Edelsbrunner) and CEO of
Geomagic, a software development company.
Since its publication a group of netizens has gone repeatedly to Amazon
and other book review pages giving her book one star and scathing reviews. Some of the reviews have been
accusatory, hateful, and ugly.
“These people who attack me have gone from
smear to hate – most who have never
even read the book. They don’t
understand and don’t care I wrote a business memoir with a cross section of my
life. This is not a history of the
Cultural Revolution or biography of my entire life. They really don't care about the truth; they simply want to
discredit me and to damage my reputation and my private life. It’s cyber bullying. I saw that there would be some
disagreement and I never thought I would be subject to this kind of
attack. It brings back unnecessary
emotional trauma to my life.”
Despite
false accusations of her being a communist and a liar, she refuses to respond
in kind; and instead chooses to respond the way she was taught as a child: with love, compassion, and hard work.
“I see the pain in people’s voices when they attack me. In some ways I empathize with those people
because they are probably angry in life.
I don’t want to be in a place of hatred but only a place of love. That’s what made me survive my
childhood and I’m not going to change that.”
***
This
love, compassion and hard work is how she was reared by her aunt and uncle who
treated her as their own – in the three-floor home on a road that was curtained
by trees in Shanghai which was also known as the “Paris of the East.”
Ping Fu was born in May 30,
1958 in Nanjing. As a newborn she
was sent to live with her uncle and aunt.
She described her family life
as peaceful, her parents never fought, being surrounded by books which she read
voraciously as a child, and given the nicknames Little Apple and Pearl In The
Hand because of how delicate and precious she was to her family.
But in 1966, at the age of
eight, that all changed when she was taken from her family and became ward of
Mao Zedong’s Cultural Revolution and sent to live in a dormitory in Nanjing,
with her four-year-old sister Hong as her roommate.
“After Mao’s death in 1976, reformers led by Deng Xiaoping gained
prominence. Most of the Maoist
reforms associated with the Cultural Revolution were abandoned by 1978. The Cultural Revolution has been
treated officially as a negative phenomenon ever since.”
Fu was freed from the dormitory
and passed the national exam in 1978, which allowed her to attend Suzhou
University (then called Jiangsu Teacher’s College) where she studied Chinese
language and literature. For her senior
year thesis she travelled to the countryside to research the effects of China’s
newly implemented one-child policy.
“I eye-witnessed and documented the practice of female infanticide
which was widespread.”
When the authorities learned
of this they briefly imprisoned her.
“It was the research material that got me into trouble. A teacher gave the material to friends
and then to more prominent people.
They took my material and never gave it back to me.”
“In
1982, the world was watching the implementation of China’s one-child
policy. A Shanghai newspaper
called for an end to gender discrimination. Later that year and in the following year, the Chinese
Communist Party made strong statements opposing female infanticide. China’s national paper, The People’s
Daily, in Beijing, acknowledged that peasants were killing baby girls. The news spread to the International Press,
which used this acknowledgment as evidence of China’s violations of human
rights. Theodore W Shultz, a Nobel
Laureate in Economics and advisor to the United Nations, denounced a proposed
UN award to the Chinese Minister of Family Planning, Qian Xinzhong. Schultz said China’s one-child policy
had caused a large increase in female infanticide.”
As a result of her research
material on the one-child policy and female infanticide, Fu was told to leave
the country and to never come back.
On January 14, 1984, after a long struggle to obtain a passport and
visa, she departed to the United States, a place that was totally foreign to
her including the language: she knew how to speak three English words: hello, thank you, and help.
During her early days in
America she worked as a waitress and a-live-in-nanny.
Her superiors were English-speaking Americans, and this helped her
learn the English language in six months.
Once she mastered the English
language, she enrolled as a matriculated student at the University of New
Mexico in Albuquerque, where she majored in English as a second language and in
computer science.
She then moved to San Diego,
and attended the University of California San Diego computer science
program. It was here that she got
her foot in the door of the career field of computer science and started
working for Lane Sharman, founder and CEO of Resource Systems Group. She eventually earned her BA in
Computer Science and a minor in Economics and continued to excel in her job at
Resource Systems Group.
She then moved to Illinois where
she worked at Bell Labs, and attended the University of Illinois at
Urbana-Champaign where she received her MS degree in May of 1990. It was here that she met her husband former Geomagic-co-founder Herbert Edelsbrunner, (the couple are now divorced), and gave birth to their
daughter.
***
In 1997 Fu co-founded (with Edelsbrunner)
Geomagic, a software development company focused on 3D software and technology
for design and manufacturing.
Geomagic’s 3D imaging software affords precise replication of complex
shapes from custom cranial plate (benefiting ABC’s Bob Woodruff), to heat tiles
for the space shuttle, and Invisalign braces, making the exact match to an
individual’s tooth in every stage of the movement, and to prosthetic limbs with
fashionable faring and human shape.
“The design starts with you, the
person. We wanted to combine thousands
of years of handcraftsmanship with the Internet. We are a technology company that focuses on the human aspect
of things.”
Geomagic is now located in
Research Triangle Park, North Carolina where Fu resides with her daughter and
her mother.
***
For
a few years, Fu spent time researching her own story by coming up with 300
pages worth of material – though she never though of actually publishing a book
but rather writing a legacy for her daughter.
“Friends and people who heard about my story
and know me wanted me to write a book.
I majored in literature in China and I wrote in a journal that was
burned so I was writing the book as a way to confront my own fear and continue
the process of healing.”
She
finally decided to make it official and in 2012, started writing the book with
co-author MeiMei Fox. The book
took nine months to write.
“I didn’t want to write a self-help book. I wanted to write a business memoir. I have quite unconventional attitudes
on leadership – that’s shown through in the book and I wrote this book – in a
small way – to illustrate a better way to conduct business, a better way of who
you are and what you are and how I came to be who I am today.”
***
Many
successes have come and continue to come for Geomagic. In 2003, Geomagic opened Geomagic GmbH,
its first wholly owned subsidiary based in Germany, and completed its first
acquisition of Cadmus Consulting in Hungary.
In
2005, Ping Fu was selected Entrepreneur of the Year by Inc. Magazine.
In
2008, for President Barack Obama’s first Inaugural Speech as President, she was
invited by First Lady Michelle Obama to attend the speech in her own special
box – making Fu one of 15 guests.
In
2010, she served on President Barack Obama’s National Advisory Council for
Innovation and Entrepreneurship.
She also sits on the board of the Long Now Foundation. Along with her great
success, Fu sometimes finds herself in great isolation.
“I’m one of few female entrepreneurs in the
country in the high technological field and it is sometimes lonely.”
Presently Geomagic consists
of 100 employees and due to a merger with 3D Systems the employee count exceeds
1200 employees. Fu will
become the Vice President and Chief Strategy Officer of the 3D Systems, a
leading public company in 3D printing.
The
majority of Fu’s time is not in her office or on any board but on airplanes
traveling the globe.
“I am not in the office enough – my job as
CEO is to understand what are the big issues in the outside world and bring those
problems inside the company for solutions. On the road – I go talk to customers and
analysts and we want to democratize that in the community – kind of bridge the
real world problems and issues and come back to help and reform those problems.”
***
Despite
being known as the cream-of-the-crop CEO, the one question that people ask her
is how she endured the atrocities she endured and still became such a success
not only in business but also in her well-being.
“We know from psychology that half of how we
feel is inborn. I was born to have
a healthy mental attitude. The mental metaphor of the glass half
full and never half empty helps me to think through things. The other half is a healthy mental
metaphor. I like to think life is
a mountain range – at different peaks, the views are different. However, you can’t reach another peak
without going down. In American
education we like to use going up as a metaphor “glass ceiling” and corporate
ladders are about going up, which is really hard. I like to think of going forward, traveling up and down on
the mountain range. There are much
more opportunities if we continue progressing forward.”